On Monday the 15th of December we were very excited as today was going to be the day that Gert and Jolandie will go for the fetal assessment. I couldn’t wait! I was busy working in Johannesburg and told everyone there that the next message from my kids will be to inform me whether I am going to be the “ouma” of a little boy or a little girl! I received a very positive but in the same time very disturbing message from Jolandie at 3pm and my heart missed several beats. Hernia? Intestines on the outside? How is that…